Marriage takes plenty of time and effort from both husband and wife to maintain. Built upon a bedrock of honesty, trust, and loyalty to one another, it can prove to be a challenge in itself to remain happily married to one person for the rest of your life.
Sadly, one woman’s union has since been shattered completely by her husband’s heartless actions.
M’sian man cheats on his wife with mistress in Thailand
Taking to social media to vent her frustrations and anger over her marriage, a Malaysian woman shared how she discovered that her husband has been cheating on her with his mistress for over a year. Apparently back in January of last year, she had already sensed something amiss with her husband. Her suspicions would soon be confirmed when she discovered that her husband has made a new ‘friend’ from Thailand, reports China Press.
In fact, her husband and his new flame would occasionally share pictures of them together and referred to each other husband and wife.
“I knew that his heart wasn’t with our family anymore, he would always be on his phone and rarely asks about the 4 kids we have together”, she said.
On her husband’s birthday, she notes that he did not return home and was always missing out on important days like their child’s first day of school or birthday celebrations. Things only went further south in December when her husband has told her that he would be heading to KL for 3 months to learn ‘how to make chicken rice’.
Lied to his wife and claims he went to learn ‘how to cook chicken rice’
When she asked him as to which restaurant he’s going, he couldn’t give her a restaurant name. He then claimed that it’s because the boss has several restaurants across KL and would only fetch him there when he’s in KL. After he left, she tried to contact her husband but unfortunately, she couldn’t reach him. By that point, she knew that her husband was actually Thailand with his mistress.
Upon his return ‘from KL’, she immediately exposed him and told him that he was well-aware of his infidelity. To her surprise, her husband then blamed her saying that the reason he cheated was because she told him to ‘not come home’ the last time they argued. Baffled, she then told him that she knew he was dating his mistress even before the argument.
Source: China Press
“He then said that the reason he is with her is because she knows how to cook and he can use her to his benefits in regard to opening his own restaurant”, she said.
She then recalled that while she was arguing with her husband, he decided to take it out on their youngest child. Understandably infuriated, he told him to leave his family if his heart is no longer with them.
“Don’t ever come back if your heart is not with us. I can’t accept sharing a husband with someone else”, she said, claiming that she has given him multiple chances to change and work on the relationship.
To make matters worse, her mother-in-law blamed her for her husband’s behaviour when she told her of her son’s extramarital affair.
“So what if he cheats on you?” she allegedly told the woman.
Netizens have since chimed in on the incident, many of whom admonished the husband for committing adultery.
“If you can’t handle the responsibility then you shouldn’t have gotten married. Not only have you harmed yourself but you’ve harmed your wife. If you didn’t married, this wouldn’t have happened.”
“It’s very common in our society.”
“Since his side of the family doesn’t care about you, you should go back to your own family.”
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